The story...
There's a guy I knew who experienced health changes that resulted in him being less inhibited and less likely to behave within accepted group-norm boundaries. I looked forward to his more interesting, vibrant, and refreshing group shares. He honestly broke the rules - you didn't know what he'd say next. He spontaneously spoke from his heart. He seemed to bypass the filters that most of us have refined throughout the years by adapting to group behavior norms. The group enforces those rules either subtly or directly.
We seem more fun as ourselves rather than acting out our assigned group role. I expect a group matures more when members act more naturally rather than "try" to conform to the idealized "best" role. This idea may support casual, rather than formal, dress within community. Certainly there are times when its best to agree to be better version of ourselves for the good of us all. Formal dress does suggest the group's desire to act and behave according to a standard that might be more desirable and honorable. "If everybody would just _____ everything would be fine - just like it use to be."
The only church in town would teach about the Body of Christ and the expected uniqueness of each of the members. Like a body, there are mouths, ears, little-toes, knees, hair follicles, and eyes - each uniquely equipped to serve their role. The body will not function as designed unless each part behaves as designed - we all can't be like the mouth (1 Cor. 12:12-27). The family would frequently remind each other of this mystical union that's facilitated and empowered by the Spirit of God - God working out His will amongst and through community. We can actually enjoy each part of the body.
Just for today...
"Did this behavior get me what I wanted or encourage me to feel good about myself? When I took a good look, I realized that the answer to the question was 'No.' Loud, angry words and actions demonstrated my frustration and pushed away all hope for peaceful solutions to my problems . . . Easy does it." Courage to Change (p. 287)
"Eyes off me; I see you - We need us; Need you too."
"Abide in Him; Safely sound - Be as one; Love abound." Am I a Poet?
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