The story...
Sometimes, the group member who wants their idea of the "best" can restrain a group from moving forward towards real growth. Yes, I was that idealist that often critiqued the motives and adequacy of significant change proposals - wanting the very best, knowing that change was necessary; yet, putting on the brakes while trying to persuade others to see, know and feel as I did. I expect that my input to the group was needed yet my insistence on my "higher ways" blocked my ears, mind and heart. I wish that I'd sought to understand different viewpoints, ideas, and perspectives before attempting to "sell" my ideal version of "the" best way forward - the "right" way to go.
A friend of mine, Henry Hudson, claimed to read Pilgrim's Progress every year. I'm about to finish the book once again - each time it's more meaningful as I imagine the reality that this allegory paints. Oh... that I might rely on and more fully trust God as I turn each corner.
The only church in town will know that we're all on a journey. It's a mistake to camp too long in one place along the way. As the story of "life" progresses, God prunes those who are His so that they produce, and enjoy, more fruit together. That kind of fruit is shared and witnesses to their source. Fruit born and enjoyed, shines His Light into the dark crannies of our lives - things do look differently in the Light.
Just for today...
"Opportunities for spiritual growth, as well as new character defects, pop up like weeds in a newly-mown lawn . . . My problem was my spiritual pride and arrogance, not my situation. The need to be right was robbing me of my serenity in all kinds of situations." Courage to Change (p. 280)
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