The story...
I attended a week-night class, at our church, when I was 64. I sat in the same seat next to three people who were significantly different from me. Each evening, the leader would break us into small groups to answer two questions. The second question normally opened the opportunity for our "guards" to be dropped so that we might listen more closely to each other's inner person - their heart. As you might guess, we became good friends and I love each of them more deeply than most people at our church. These three relationships were an unexpected blessing to me.
There were other people in the class who I've known much longer than my three new friends. I don't share the same type of relationship with them. I probably could but I don't.
The only church in town would be a place where it might seem normal for a person to meet another co-sojourner and ask earnestly "how's your heart today?" And, you might perform a 3-sec.self-inventory and respond that you are both thankful and joyful despite the circumstances that you're currently experiencing.
Just for today...
"I don't have to like everybody, but I want to look deeper to find the spirit that we share in common . . . I will keep an open mind toward each person I encounter today. If I am ready to learn, anyone can be my teacher." Courage to Change (p. 204)
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