The story...
Oh the countless hours spent coaching others regarding how they might best improve their lives based on my own learnings and experiences. Sharing my ways of living seemed like a noble endeavor. This "story teller" style of interaction attracted listeners. The dream of telling stories as a professor seemed like a good person-job fit so I worked that long winding path towards a PhD. The last ten years of my career were spent living out my dream job.
I imagined being a professor who lived on a quiet-tree-lined street, in a one-story house, with a big front porch. Students would stop by to discuss their research work, to talk about life, or to imagine what might be together. We'd work consulting engagements together where we'd make a real difference. As you might expect, it didn't work out the way I imagined. Students and fellow professors tired me by the end of the day and I looked forward to retiring to my condo outside of campus.
Towards the end of the semester, during my first year teaching in Duluth, MN, a student made a comment to me within a large lecture hall. "I don't see why we're tested on opinions that you have about anything - shouldn't we be tested on what's proved to be true about the subject?" He was right; thereafter, I clearly distinguished my opinion from the body of knowledge that we studied together.
So, I do know a lot of stuff yet know that a man should be taught as though they've not been taught. Who can know the will of God for another person? Within the past three years, I've more frequently kept my opinions to myself and found that I now have few opinions as to what another person might best do or be. It seems, I don't naturally gravitate to forming opinions about other people anymore. I do look for, and greatly appreciate, closer relationships with other people and my closer walk with God through the Spirit of Christ.
Within the only church in town, people would be allowed to actually grow in their love for God, for themselves, and for other people too. Each person loving in their own unique way and at their own pace. The measure of their faith wouldn't be primarily based on their knowledge of scripture or church resume - they would be a unique work of God, rightly related to Him, and humbly walking together.
Just for today...
"It's only natural to want to share what works for me with those I love. But, when I must share it now, I may be more interested in changing others than in sharing my experience, strength, and hope." Courage to Change (p. 166)
"We ought not to insist on everyone following in our footsteps, nor to take upon ourselves to give instructions in spirituality when, perhaps, we do not even know what it is." Teresa of Avila
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