The story...
It's best to hold a tennis racket and handlebars loosely - gripping too tightly over corrects and can take us where we don't wanna go quickly. My first rides on my KLR in deep sand were out of control and scary. What I learned about riding motorcycles in deep sand seems to apply to life too.
- Don't sit down - stay balanced on your feet
- Relax your mind and your body will follow - fight the urge to grip too hard
- Do your steering through your feet weighting the pegs.
- Maintain momentum - consistent throttle control
- When done right, it's like a dance - joyful.
If I look back twenty years, most of the people, places and things have changed. They'd have changed no matter how hard I tried to keep them the way that I thought was best. If I wouldn't have been open to new people, places, things, and ideas - I would've missed out on much of the joy of life.
I'm learning to hold onto relationships less tightly - they change and are best when they are freely offered and accepted. Sometimes what I thought I wanted was not what they could actually give or accept. "Stay balanced and let them be." They may choose to dance a similar dance as you yet not with you - that's okay. Let them live their own life and enjoy the few close dance partners that you do have - be willing to let them go and be open to new ones too.
The only church in town will be a good place to develop life-giving relationships. Hopefully, the relationships will be characterized as freely offered, graceful, forgiving, and changing too. Your relationship with God through faith in Christ is obviously the most important. He's the foundation for the best relationships - those dances that're part of a joyful life lived out in ever-changing circumstances.
Just for today...
Worrying is using your imagination to create a future you don't want.
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