The story...
Maybe it's because I grew up in a small town where parking was free and plentiful - I resent parking permits and meters. I freed my bike from the campus lock with bolt cutters; I pled my ticket case in front of the campus security board; and I found a way to not pay my parking tickets before I graduated. Instead, I wrote a check for same amount owed to the "Alumni Fund" and mailed it to Campus Security - "You're never going to get the money for those tickets!" My dad was shocked when he saw my name listed as one of the larger Alumni donors for the year.
I've lived too much of my life rebelling against systems that didn't work best for me or seemed unfair. Like many, I likely grew up self focused and less concerned about other people or the community at large. It seems I wasn't interested much in the macro picture of life and worked to sub-optimize my own micro situation - the world of me, myself and I.
I must've valued the availability of a close and safe parking space when I needed it. It's logical that parking lots can't be designed to hold the greatest number of cars that may want to park there. And, I didn't want to pave paradise and put up a parking lot. So, we do need to obey rules that best serve our community?
Now, I'm so thankful for community leaders who actually work their vision of the future into fruition. And, I'm pleased to pay my taxes and have less consternation about paying parking fees too. Rather than merely enforcing the rules against my will, I expect that it might have been better to teach the younger me about the value of community and the need for the rules that help sustain it.
The only church in town needs rules too. If they've white carpet then those entering must take off their shoes. Rules may also be required to protect the "essentials" that're necessary to sustain and grow us.
Just for today...
"When I feel stressed, I'll stop to check whether my basic needs are being met." Hope for Today (p. 96)
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